No Arguments

 While playing cricket with my friends, the uncle who is our neighbor said us with a angry tone, " this is a Residential area and you can't make noise here while playing, it's not allowed in a residential area ." My friend got angry and started arguing with my neighbor . Somehow I managed him to stop arguing and said sorry to the uncle. I knew it very well that it was not my or any of my friends fault and so my friends too . So my friend got angry with me and left my society. 

Few days went and he came to me and  said ," I know that leaving the game incomplete and going away vigorously I not a right thing but the way you stopped me and said sorry to the uncle is totally wrong." In reply to him I said," Just think of the situation again and this time think that I have not stopped you and also didn't say sorry to the uncle too. What would have happened , the argument would have been going on and on with not any conclusion and what both of us would get is anger and anger. There comes situations that we have to keep quite and say dam no to arguments . Let me tell you a story,

Once the great noble prize winner Rabindranath Tagore was sitting in a conference with thousands of people ahead . The host of the show asked Tagore a question that how he managed his anger and stress. In return Tagore answered ," I manage my anger and stress by simply just not arguing with anyone even if I am Right in that situation." The host argued with Tagore and said ," How is it possible , if I am right in any situation and the person in the opposition is wrong in context to the situation then I must say  something in order to prove myself right ." Tagore replied ," if you know very well that you are right then why you need to prove it yourself , right things gets proved itself ." But the host replied , "No but I think there is no one who will come and say us right and the opposition wrong ." Tagore just smiled a little and said the host ," ohh I think you are right , I am wrong." just after the sentence was completed the audience started laughing on the host . My friend if you are wise then this much is enough to explain you and get the point why audience laughed at the host." 


Till that time all my friends came to complete the incomplete match. My friend had so many doubts so I said him that I will surely clear hi doubts. And we went to play.




TO BE CONTINUED ….





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