Chasing Our Dreams

I was about to go for watching the IPL match when my friend came and I too stood  with him to have a chat . I saw at his face and guessed that he is in some tension .I asked him," what's the matter bro"? He replied, "I am not having a clear idea about my dreams and ambitions , parents say go for higher studies , relatives say become a doctor or an engineer , friends say go for commerce and become a CA and lot's more . I am very confused and also not able to decide what should I do." In reply to that I said, " It's totally your decision to chose your passion or to do what people say. If you want my opinion I would suggest you few things like :- 

1. First of all take a pen and paper and write down all those things you think you can do as your passion and on the other side of the page write down what people or your relatives say you should be. This may also take a month for you because you have no clear Idea of your dream or goal.

2. After writing all that , go and explore all that things . For example ,If you have written your dream as a doctor then go and explore about terms and conditions required like going for science stream in class 11 , giving NEET exam and much more. you may also take feedbacks of the respective persons in that field . Also note down the positive and negative points of it . Do it with each and every dream .

3. After doing all this work , just go through your research and then think about the research of the respective fields. You will get that which fields suits you the best and which not. The fields you think you can't make it as your career , you remove them from the paper . Doing this all you will come on a field which will be suitable for you . Then don't be hesitated to perceive that field as your career. I repeat again this is a time taking process . 

4. After your field is decided then don't see back and fire up for your destination. My experience says that you must also keep yourself motivated till you reach your destination because when you do hard work for reaching your destination , times come you get tired and get demotivated and say I QUIT . So always keep yourself motivated .

5. Last but not the least the very great personality Sachin Tendulkar said " Chase your dreams, Dreams do come TRUE!"

And I went to see the match.

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